But the truth about what men really want is rather more old-fashioned, according to a new survey. For most men the ideal woman to come home to would be a pretty 5ft 8in blue-eyed blonde - who is good in bed and doesn't earn too much. A study of 66, male members of a top dating site revealed that most are dreaming of meeting a busty beauty who bears a startling resemblance to Dancing On Ice host Holly Willoughby. Scroll down for more Curby blonde Dancing on Eyes star Holly Willoughby has many of the attributes of the 'ideal woman', according to the survey Ideally, she will be a physically fit size 12, weigh a trim nine-and-a-half stones, live on her own and occasionally wear glasses. The results are in stark contrast to the same research carried out on women by the same website earlier this year.