I'm sick to death of hearing men complain to me that they can't get laid no matter how hard they try. Because here's a fact: surely if you're a vibrant heterosexual you should know by know that women these days have equally raging sex drives. And many of them want nothing more than a warm body to snuggle up to at night or during their lunch break … as long he calls or heck, even texts! Don't say I didn't warn you …. Women know these men well. There's no conversation, witty banter or any real attempt to get to know her. Instead these men go straight for the kill: they need sex, they need it now and since a woman has got two legs in a miniskirt, they surmise she'll be up for it. So why not ask?
All the rage the movie Far From Heaven, four young housewives discuss their sex lives over lunchtime daiquiris. The boldest of the group coaxes the others en route for reveal how often their husbands absence to make love. Can you imagine? The movie is set in the '50s and the clothing and central decorating reflect the era, as does the girlish modesty of the confessions. Sex is presented as a wifely duty, an activity that, while not unpleasant, is engaged in because one's husband insists on it. Still, although the women roll their eyes by their husbands' appetites, the tone is one of thrilled, bubbling excitement. Half a century later, in a San Francisco kitchen, the subject is the same but the conversation is actual different. Seven women are sipping amethyst around a long, comfortable table.
How we see the world shapes who we choose to be — after that sharing compelling experiences can frame the way we treat each other, designed for the better. This is a able perspective. In the early s, the focus took a feminist turn adjacent to anti-pornography feminists. Now more mainstream, the conversations revolve around empowering women en route for have as much sex as they want, without shame. Many of us grew up on TV shows, movies, and books that use promiscuity after that independence synonymously.
