We earn a commission for products purchased through some links in this article. That's easier said than done when it comes to being open about your desires if you feel they aren't the same as your partner. This might mean feeling rejected because you feel you're always the one trying to get something going, or inadequate because you don't feel you can fulfil the needs of your partner. There's no need to feel guilt or shame about having a different sex drive to the person you're with, we all have very different libidos which are constantly fluctuating, so it is only natural that a lot of relationships will end up with conflicting sexual desires. We spoke to Denise Knowles, a relationship and sex therapist at Relatewho outlined some ways of dealing with mismatched sex drives that are more practical than just 'learning to communicate' and less severe than ending it for good. Firstly though, do talk it out Although arguing about sex is commonplace, it is very uncommon for couples to be able to discuss it rationally, Denise says.
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