When looking back on your sexual history, there's bound to be one or two experiences that stand out from the rest. Maybe it was your first time ever, your most recent tryst, or that one-night stand from two years ago that you still fantasize about. There are many layers to what makes a great lay, but to start: Sometimes fully giving yourself over to the experience is all you need for a mind-blowing romp. To make that happen, sexual and relationship psychotherapist Kate Moyle advises that you simply listen to your body. Another key component to the best sex stories? Electric attraction. This may seem like a no-brainer, but Engle explains that many factors can contribute to that spicy, sensual chemistry. You have chemistry, and things are hot.
So as to view appears to be evolving, but. While physiological changes can sometimes abide a toll on libido, there are so many other factors at act when it comes to maintaining a satisfying sex life as you become old, says Holly Richmond, a certified femininity therapist based in New York. Paying attention to them can help you have more — and better — sex than you ever had at the same time as a teen. Here are five things experts say the most satisfied women have in common. They know how to please themselves Sex is akin to potato chips: The more we allow, the more we want, says Richmond. The problem, Richmond says, is so as to a lot of women, particularly those age plus, are not doing this on their own. But less than 25 percent of woman orgasm as of penetrative sex alone, says Richmond.