Our young reader is afraid to tell guys she's a virgin, but I think it's a bad idea to hide the truth. Being a virgin always makes me worry about meeting a guy since I would be terrified to bring it up and especially since I go to a small university, lots of people know each other. Would it be possible to have sex without him knowing you are a virgin? But just because something is possible doesn't mean it's a good idea. Will he be able to tell you're a virgin by looking at you naked? In fact, some experts say there may be no way to tell if a woman is a virgineven with gynecological tests. However, there is a chance you could bleed your first time although many women don'tand there is a chance you could experience some pain your first time again, some don't.
