Have a question about relationships and sex for seniors? Every month in Sex at Our Age, award-winning senior sexpert Joan Price answers your questions about everything from loss of desire to solo sex and partner issues. Nothing is out of bounds! My wife and I are in our 60s, very active and in good health. When she was in the mood, my wife really enjoyed sex and had great orgasms, but that mood hit less and less frequently. I finally became frustrated with being turned down and just waited for her to initiate sex. So our sex lives dwindled until around 15 years ago she realized a more regular sex life might be a good thing. She told me a few years ago that she felt sorry for me because of her lack of sexual desire.
By hook or by crook, the competition makes us very horny. So, in other words, table tennis is our Viagra. M, Westchester NY; married 20 years. It relaxes equally of us, and the intimate after that gentle touching leads to kissing after that then sex. It sets the air for a slowed down, sensual dark when we might otherwise be 'too tired. So I do all the things that feel like they're available to lead to sex — badly lit the lights, light candles, play adore music, put on lingerie. If I'm feeling adventurous, I may even abide out a sex toy or about I want to try a additional game for some added fun.
